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Archives | Mar. 2022

Finding Your Fit: What Happens When Hiring A Divorce Lawyer

By Kemmie Ryan

Finding Your Fit: What Happens When Hiring A Divorce Lawyer

PHOTOGRAPHY BY ROBIN SUBAR

Most people who hire a divorce lawyer don’t see it for what it is, an investment in both their present peace of mind and in their future. Anita Ventrelli, of Schiller DuCanto & Fleck LLP, knows what prospective clients should ask about and what qualities they should look for when interviewing potential attorneys.

One of Ventrelli’s career-defining cases found her when a quadriplegic mother of four special needs children reached out to her. She hoped to find an attorney who believed in her case instead of telling her she had no way to avoid surrendering custody. Ventrelli told the naysayers they would see that that her client had a better team to meet the children’s needs. Today, that mother has sole legal custody of her children who live with her full time. Why? Because Ventrelli found ways to make a Guardian, two evaluators and a Judge see her client as a person, not a disability. While it surprised many, there was never a doubt in Ventrelli’s mind that her client didn’t have everything she needed to parent her children.

“When you believe in somebody’s case, working through it and putting it together becomes a labor of love,” says Ventrelli. “Believing is the whole ball game.” The right attorney listens to what someone wants, thinks creatively, and helps with goal setting, education, and cost benefit analysis. Well-rounded lawyers know how to research, write, do discovery, run a team, roll with the unexpected and navigate courtrooms. They work in dispute resolution and litigate, and they excel at communicating. For clients, this means listening without judgment or agenda. Good lawyers adapt and work with client strengths while counseling realistic expectations and issue spotting for risks.

“It’s not just about the law, it’s about the law as it touches people’s lives,” says Ventrelli.

Ventrelli sees people asking only about legal process and not about how the relationship will work. While experience and rates matter, equally important questions deal with how the lawyer works, for example: “If I send you an email, when will you answer? How do to I reach you for an afterhours emergency? How will you help me understand the processes that the case requires? What role do I play? Such questions will provide insight into communication’s style and methods. If you feel better leaving the consultation than you did when you went in, it’s a sign of good fit.

“My goal is to get my clients through the process on a no-regrets basis,” says Ventrelli. When clients tell her what they want, why, and what might change their goals, it gives her a clear picture of what she has to work with and priceless insight into a client’s personality, motivations, and how they work best. This fuel’s Ventrelli’s creative drive to tell each client’s story in the most persuasive and legally supported manner possible.

The Schiller DuCanto & Fleck LLP Chicago office is located at 321 N. Clark St., Suite 1200. For more information, call 312-641-5560 or visit sdflaw.com.

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